Grace, Courtesy and Islamic Learning

Grace and courtesy are fundamental aspects of the Montessori method. They're also vital traits for a Muslim to posess.

The Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, taught: "The best among you are those who have the best manners and character," (reported in Sahih Bukhari).

Islam's focus on manners and good character extends to many areas of our lives: our greetings and speech, our modesty, the quality of our relationships, even the way process our thoughts. It's no wonder we would also want to cultivate these lessons for our children at home and at the co-op.

In our Wildflower Montessori class, grace and courtesy lessons are woven into daily activities, with an emphasis on teaching the children to understand the importance of kindness, empathy, and respect. By learning grace and courtesy, children develop a sense of belonging and community, which is essential for their social and emotional growth.

Some of the grace and courtesy lessons we've been working on at co-op include:

• teaching children how to send salaam to one another and others

• helping children to play and interact politely and with respect

• fostering a welcoming atmosphere where all children feel welcomed and included

• asking for permission and saying "please" when making requests

• showing gratitude when others help us and saying "thank you"

• taking turns and being patient when waiting for a turn

• following the sunnah when we eat

• extending empathy towards others and apologizing when we cause harm

In addition to structured lessons, grace and courtesy is modeled by our Montessori team each day of co-op. Children observe and mimic respectful behaviors, such as holding doors open for others, offering help when needed, and taking outstanding care of our space and materials. This consistent modeling reinforces the importance of these values in everyday life.

Overall, learning grace and courtesy in the Montessori method equips children with essential social skills that not only connect them to the beautiful sunnah of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, but also benefit them throughout their lives.

Click here to read about how The Peace Rose is helping us to enrich our grace and courtesy lessons and solve class conflicts.